Divorce Mediation Vs. Divorce Litigation

Divorce doesn’t always have to be litigious. Divorce Mediation is a wonderful alternative for couples who feel they can come to mutual agreements on their separation. And it offers a myriad of benefits in comparison to Divorce Litigation that many couples find more advantageous for their finances, their futures, and the wellbeing of their children. Here are some of the key differences between Divorce Mediation and Divorce Litigation.

Money

Divorce Mediation is far less costly than Divorce Litigation. When two spouses decide to iron out their divorce in the courtroom, they both need to hire lawyers. Combined attorney fees often cost approximately $30,000 or more. Divorce Mediation, however, only costs $5,000 on average, with combined mediation fees, review by a consulting attorney and paperwork preparation.

Time

In Divorce Litigation, a couple must work with the timetable of the courts. In Divorce Mediation, the timetable of sessions is up to the couple. They can decide to schedule sessions periodically, giving them time to understand how their decisions will affect their futures, or they can decide to schedule their sessions close together in order to get through the divorce in a timelier fashion.

The Effects On Children

In Divorce Litigation, children involved may be appointed a lawyer by the court who may order forensic evaluation if deemed necessary. Divorce is already a difficult time for children. Being dragged through a custody battle can be confusing and detrimental for them. In Divorce Mediation, children don’t have to be a part of the process. Both parents can come to an agreement on child custody that’s in the best interest of the child.

Control

In Divorce Litigation, a judge is the one who controls the outcome of the divorce. In Divorce Mediation, two spouses come to a mutual agreement and control the outcome of their own divorce.

Privacy

In Divorce Litigation, your life becomes public record. Spouse’s accusations against each other are aired out in a courtroom. In Divorce Mediation, these matters can be discussed in a private environment – everything is confidential.