While many of the sources and causes of disputes continue, the pandemic has actually led to new and immediate conflicts. Managing workforces becomes more difficult while adhering to social distancing guidelines, leaving many going home with more stress than ever. Ultimately, tensions in many households have skyrocketed. Since we are all encouraged to stay at home, small disagreements that would normally be no big deal now have the potential to be enough to start a major spat between spouses.

With so much added stress and anxiety from the pandemic, it is more important than ever to get disputes resolved quickly and efficiently. With the courts being closed or restricted over the past year, getting a divorce in a typical way can take longer than ever. However, going through a mediation is still a quick and cost effective option. With mediation, there is no need to go to the court, no need to hire divorce lawyers, and consultations and mediations can be done over audio or video conference. Many couples are now realizing just how effective divorce mediation is during these unprecedented times. Even post-pandemic, the tides may change from the traditional process of divorce being the standard, transforming to divorce mediation being a viable option that is always to be considered.

Divorce can be devastating no matter the circumstance. Being cooped up at home in an unhappy relationship is difficult and the added pressure of being faced with a pandemic certainly makes it that much harder. While you consider and plan how you will get your issues resolved, it’s important that you do all you can to keep a calm environment at home. Harsh words by way of email and text can come back to haunt you in a future proceeding, and explosive or violent behavior may result in a domestic violence action, which are still being heard by the courts. Instead, find ways to remain cool and calm. Seek out assistance by way of a remote therapist and/or lean on your support system – there are still people out there who are willing to listen and help you. Try to go outside for some fresh air, or find other ways to calm yourself and avoid constant confrontation